Honestly the leave utah advice is what made me try a matchmaker instead of actually moving. I figured if the problem was non mormon pool here being too small i would rether pay to widen it than uproot my whole life. I t was fine, not the miracle the adds may sound like. The one genuinely useful part was they pulled from Outside utah so I met a few people I never would have seen on hinge in slc. I used vida select , though did not find one it was not the scam half this thread think it is either.

did consults with three when i was looking last year. its just lunch felt like a factory, very assembly line and the dates didnt match what i asked for at all. eight at eight was more of a group dinner thing which wasnt what i wanted. vida select was the only one that let me see who i was meeting before committing to a date which made a huge difference. ended up going with them for a few months and met someone im still seeing

Honestly there is no magic service that just hands you a perfect partner. The better ones just reduce random noise and filter people properly before introductions happen. You still have to show up and actually build connection. Vida Select and Kelleher International are known for more structured matchmaking at the high end. Delmont International sits in that same luxury tier where everything is more curated and private.

At this point I'm pretty sure dating in vegas is just a different sport than dating anywhere else. 42m, Henderson. divorced, been here 8 years. half the women on the apps work nights in hospitality so our schedules never line up. other half are either tourists or influencers (sorry but no). last month: one seemed normal then told me she works bottle service and is free tuesdays at 2pm. another drove from Summerlin, got here 40 minutes late because of the 215, then spent the date complaining about henderson being boring. third was cool but asked on date two if vegas is permanent for me or just a phase. like staying here needs defending. buddy suggested i try a matchmaker but that feels like such a vegas thing to pay someone to do. cant tell if that's smart or desperate at this point. anyone actually done it? edit: this thread was not what i expected lmao. fair enough on some of it. yeah the vegas question was normal, i was being a dick about that. some of the rest was a reach but whatever. still nowhere on apps so talked to tawkify and vida select. someone in here mentioned tawkify only matched their client once in over a year in vegas which sketched me out. vida was monthly and i can actually see who i'm meeting before committing which felt better. one intro so far. works normal hours and actually lives here so that's already an improvement. low bar but well see.